Well this is really for anyone who may have this problem ever and just to say i think i solved it hopefully and thanks for everones help:
I did end up putting cardboard in front of the radiator (had to use 2 smaller pieces) and i drove around for a little bit, i really had thought my temp sensor was shot but sure enough it began to warm up and show at the half and half. the next thing i noticed was because my car has been running all winter fuked up when it was warmed up my idle was at about 200RPM because i had to screw the adjustment screw so much to get it to not idle too high.
Im pretty sure now that the thermostat has been stuck open and allowing my engine to never reach anywhere near the correct operating temperature hopefully this will also improve gas mileage (greatly?) when i put in a new thermostat tomorrow.
Out of curiosity i touched the engine with my hand earlier before the cardboard and it was luke warm anywhere on the engine.. im assuming that the valve cover should be a "not able to touch for more than a second area" right? this is how it was after the cardboard.
i just hope it is the thermostat and not something more sinister..... i guess ill find out tomorrow
one little question tho, you guys think i should get the "HONDA OEM THERMOSTAT" from the dealer, (im gonna go there for a gasket anways, checker is out of them), you think it may last longer/ not fail after 6 months like the current one, if i use a honda one rather than a slant one?
thanks for all help guys, maybe i can finally enjoy spending ALOT less at the pump, and maybe even enjoy better performance
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