Same here.
It really just depends how long the paint has been on the car. If the paint has been on the car for 90 days or more, it's pretty much a guarantee that waxing the car it won't harm the paint. As long as there's the clear coat layer on top, the number of candy or tint layers under it shouldn't effect whether or not you should wax the car. If the car's paint was applied less than 60 days ago, it might be a good idea to wait another month or so before you wax it for the first time. Especially in cooler climates.
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